Gabriel & Pilar
Dear Brigitte,
Our deepest condolences. You know I in particular can sympathize with you at the deepest level...what you've been through and what you're going through.
Bottom line, you gave completely of yourself and did what a daughter does - you cared for your dad until the end. and your journey still continues, as did mine when my father passed.
It is said that with time the pain goes away, but unfortunately, the more invested one is with caring for their parents, the longer it takes. You loved your dad so much and it showed. Equally unfortunate is that you, as with me, cannot grieve properly right now because you have your mom still. The day will come when you will be able to grieve and finally let go.
Word of advice - never think you didn't do enough. Never think "what if I..." ...these thoughts will eat you up. You went above and beyond the call of duty and there was nothing different your could have done. Just words, I know. Feels different.
We love you and are with you in spirit. Will be praying a special Rosary for Ray's soul tomorrow, during his funeral.
Gabriel & Pilar
Friday October 30, 2015 at 3:22 pm